The Relationship Process
Day 6 – Seeing perfect roles
Now that you see the role the healing being is playing, know that their role is always helpful, no matter what. The healing being is always showing you where you are projecting, thereby causing yourself pain, or the healing being reflects your joy back to you. There are only two things the healing being can do in the drama.
If this is true of the healing being, it is also true of you. You are a healing being playing a perfect role in a drama. However you are showing up, you are showing up either as a call to accept healing now or as a reflection of joy. Because showing up as a reflection of joy feels better, there is an incentive to take the invitation to healing that any being offers you. As you take healing’s invitation, you show up more often as a reflection of joy. You also light up a pathway to healing for others to follow.
Remember, though, however any being is showing up, it is perfect right now. If you don’t feel good and you want to feel better, simply take the invitation to healing that is always there for you.
Check in with yourself. Are there any healing beings you perceive as showing up in a way that is wrong? Identify the healing being.
[Name], I thank you for working with me in thought today.
What seems to be wrong with the healing being?
Example: Lila seems to be cruel to others.
Notice the feeling you have when you believe this.
I notice that I feel _________________ when I believe ___________________ about [Name].
The feeling is the signal that you are believing a lie, and you are moving away from healing. Taking the example of cruelty, when you see cruelty in another and believe it, you are deciding to hold onto the cruelty of separation perception. Separation perception delivers a world of cruelty unto you. You can choose to release separation perception.
[Name], seeing ____________ in you is an invitation to me to release the _______________ of separation perception. I am willing to release the ______________ of separation perception so that I can feel my Love for you and for myself. [Name], I thank you for showing me so clearly that I can release what I have been trying to locate and define in you. If I release the _________________ of separation perception, I will never have to see myself as ___________________ again.
In this example about Lila, it would go like this:
Lila, seeing cruelty in you is an invitation to me to release the cruelty of separation perception. I am willing to release the cruelty of separation perception so that I can feel my Love for you and for myself. Lila, I thank you for showing me so clearly that I can release what I have been trying to locate and define in you. If I release the cruelty of separation perception, I will never have to see myself as cruel again.
Remember the true function of all healing beings:
[Name], I know you always show up perfectly because you can only do two helpful things. You can invite me to healing, or you can reflect the joy we are. You are perfect. If you are perfect, then I must be, too. Thank you for showing me our perfection and equality.
If you can, stop every hour to repeat this to yourself. Remember, your mind is touching all other minds across time and space. If you believe a thought about a being, you invite that being either further into false self or back into the Love of True Self. What you do for others is what you do for yourself, so keep inviting yourself back into the awareness of True Self by doing the same for all others.
Remember the power of a little bit of focus. You bless yourself and all when you stop to bask in truth:
My work is whole, perfect and complete for today.