https://youtu.be/PNsrumh2M8U You don't have to attempt to change a separate self to please someone or to avoid displeasing someone. You are not a separate self, and you gain no value from the pretend separateness, positively or negatively judged, of any self seen through this distorted lens. The one you would please or displease is also … Continue reading To conspire is to breathe with →