Day: November 14, 2018

Turning off the identity spawner

Conflict is caused by a temptation to attach to an identity that is not your own, every time. As you do this, you also attach to ideas of separate identities for all of the players in the dramas your are experiencing. In the context of the experience of conflict, time is very useful. It is … Continue reading Turning off the identity spawner →

Right under the surface

Ego's suggestions are optional. Take that in. Go slowly. This is our advice for your day. Go slowly. Notice what ego suggests, and notice that it is optional. Sit on a park bench with ego. Hear a suggestion. Wait. Allow it to fade. The more you slow down like this, the less you will mistake … Continue reading Right under the surface →